About Men's Life Groups

What does it mean to be a man? At what point does a boy become a man? Is it determined by achievements, possessions, or a particular age? No, true manhood is measured by character, stature and spiritual strength. The Men’s Life Groups seeks to equip men to be godly leaders in every arena of life. Men who are R.E.A.L., who Reject passivity, Expect a greater reward, God’s reward, Accept responsibility and Lead courageously to the glory of God, will experience God’s best in their lives. Men are the primary influencers in their homes, communities, workplaces and churches. Because this is true, we offer short-term studies, accountability groups, breakfast gatherings and special events throughout the year. Our primary men’s short-term life groups are Chosen to Lead and Men’s Fraternity, details below. However, we have other life groups that meet at various days and times. Click the link below to search the men's life groups.

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Men's Den

If you’re looking for a men’s Life Group that meets weekly in the early mornings, say before work, you have a home here! Every Wednesday from 6:00am- 7:00am, VRL Men's is hosting Men's Den, a men-centric meeting time, to connect to a life group where men can encourage, empower and equip one another.

Facilities Serve Day

Looking to serve? Join the Facilities Team the third Tuesday of every month from 9:00am to 12:00pm as we serve and have lunch together.

Men's Breakfast

Let's gather men! We meet on the 2nd Saturday of each month, here at VRL, 8 am. We'll have a hot breakfast and intentional conversations.

Pure Desire

There is a battle going on with millions of victims trapped in the struggle of sexual addiction with no apparent way out. Pure Desire is the answer. Offered Mondays, Tuesday & Fridays.

GriefShare Summer Session

GriefShare is a special 13-week support group for people grieving the loss of someone close. Join us at our new summer time from 8:00pm-9:00pm on Monday evenings after Celebrate Recovery worship, starting June 6th.


Mondays starting September 19th at the Barker campus VRL offers DivorceCare. Most people will tell you that separation and divorce are the most painful and stressful experiences they've ever faced. It's a confusing time when you feel isolated and have lots of questions about the issues you've never faced before. Cost $10