About Men's Life Groups

What does it mean to be a man? At what point does a boy become a man? Is it determined by achievements, possessions, or a particular age? No, true manhood is measured by character, stature and spiritual strength. The Men’s Life Groups seeks to equip men to be godly leaders in every arena of life. Men who are R.E.A.L., who Reject passivity, Expect a greater reward, God’s reward, Accept responsibility and Lead courageously to the glory of God, will experience God’s best in their lives. Men are the primary influencers in their homes, communities, workplaces and churches. Because this is true, we offer short-term studies, accountability groups, breakfast gatherings and special events throughout the year. Our primary men’s short-term life groups are Chosen to Lead and Men’s Fraternity, details below. However, we have other life groups that meet at various days and times. Click the link below to search the men's life groups.

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Nail it to the Cross

Do you have anything you need to nail to the cross and finally give it to God? On December 13th we will be having our 5th annual Nail it to the Cross night! Join us for an experiential evening as we nail our hurts habits and hang ups to the cross. Dinner served at 6:15PM with worship starting at 7:00PM.

Pure Desire

There is a battle going on with millions of victims trapped in the struggle of sexual addiction with no apparent way out. Pure Desire is the answer. Offered at the Barker campus Tuesday & Fridays.

Men's Breakfast

Let's gather men! On the 2nd Saturday of each month, 8am, we'll have hot breakfast and intentional conversations. Join with the guys of VRL at our monthly gathering for guys only. Come hear a testimony, enjoy intentional discussions and make some new connections.


Mondays starting February 28 at the Barker campus for 13 weeks VRL offers DivorceCare. Most people will tell you that separation and divorce are the most painful and stressful experiences they've ever faced. DivorceCare is a friendly, caring group of people who will walk alongside you, as you go through this difficult time. Cost $10, Click image above to register.

GriefShare Fall 2021

GriefShare is a special 13-week support group for people grieving the loss of someone close. This group is sponsored by the people who have been where you are, understand what you are experiencing, and want to offer you comfort and encouragement during this difficult time. The first meeting is Tuesday, September 14th and ends December 7th.

Living Free

Living Free is for guys between 15-18 years old who are experiencing unwanted sexual behaviors. Identify the underlying factors that create and reinforce compulsive sexual behaviors. Break free and live in the freedom that God provides by getting connected with others who struggle with the same things that you do. Join us on Tuesday evenings from 6:30-8:00pm.