About Men's Life Groups

What does it mean to be a man? At what point does a boy become a man? Is it determined by achievements, possessions, or a particular age? No, true manhood is measured by character, stature and spiritual strength. The Men’s Life Groups seeks to equip men to be godly leaders in every arena of life. Men who are R.E.A.L., who Reject passivity, Expect a greater reward, God’s reward, Accept responsibility and Lead courageously to the glory of God, will experience God’s best in their lives. Men are the primary influencers in their homes, communities, workplaces and churches. Because this is true, we offer short-term studies, accountability groups, breakfast gatherings and special events throughout the year. Our primary men’s short-term life groups are Chosen to Lead and Men’s Fraternity, details below. However, we have other life groups that meet at various days and times. Click the link below to search the men's life groups.

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The REALationships (RAM Curriculum) Series is a 6-week Church Wide Healthy Relationship Campaign that has something for everyone.

DNA | October 17, 2021

Come learn more about the vision God has for VRL, our discipleship process, the beliefs that unify us and what makes VRL so great to be a part of.

2021 Trunk-or-Treat

Join us on Halloween for a Trunk-or-Treat at Valley Real Life on October 31st from 3-5pm! This free event is for families with kids of all ages. Wear your costumes, receive lots of candy, and have a great time!

Pure Desire

There is a battle going on with millions of victims trapped in the struggle of sexual addiction with no apparent way out. Pure Desire is the answer. Offered at the Barker campus Tuesday & Fridays and at the Otis campus on Monday evenings.

Men's Breakfast

Let's gather men! On the 2nd Saturday of each month, 8am, we'll have hot breakfast and intentional conversations. Join with the guys of VRL at our monthly gathering for guys only. Come hear a testimony, enjoy intentional discussions and make some new connections.

Helping Christian Boys Thrive Summit

On October 2nd VRL will be Partnering with the Spokane Fatherhood Initiative by hosting a regional event called: Helping Christian Boys Thrive. This is a Summit from 9am to 4pm. Let's come together to better the future.